Heartlessness and the End Times :: by Ron and Nathele Graham

Ron Graham was called home on March 14, 2013. He began writing this commentary before his death and had asked me, Nathele Graham, to continue his service to our Lord by finishing what he began.


Some of the disciples had asked Jesus about when the end of the world would be and this is one of the signs given to them. “…Tell us, when shall these things be? And what shall be the sign of thy coming, and of the end of the world?” (Matthew 24:3b).

They were asking about Jesus’ Second Coming and the end of the “aiōn”, which means a period of time or age. They weren’t asking about the Rapture and Jesus’ answer was pointed toward a time known as Daniel’s 70th week, which is a seven-year time period sometime after the Rapture. Interestingly we can already see this prophecy coming to pass. Jesus told His disciples that this period of time will be unprecedented in human history and that men’s hearts will turn toward so much evil that love shall wax cold.

Paul also wrote to Timothy about the heartless mindset of people in the last days.

“This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God” (2 Timothy 3:1-4).

Paul’s words are becoming reality as we see people are becoming more and more heartless. News headlines are filled with cold hearted murders and torture. People’s hearts are growing colder each day and it seems that hatred abounds in every sector of our society. Where will it end? It will end in judgment.

As Daniel’s 70th week draws near Christians will undoubtedly be victims of much heartless behavior. This hatred is inspired by Satan and his minions; he hates Christians because we represent Christ. Long ago there was a young man who hated Christians and did all he could to destroy them. His name was Saul. He obtained orders to persecute Christians and hauled them off to jail and worse. One day as he was off to Damascus to cause more havoc amongst the Christians, Saul met Jesus. A light from heaven shined all around him:

“And he fell to the earth, and heard a voice saying unto him, Saul, Saul, why persecutest thou me?” (Acts 9:4).

Saul was more than a little confused “And he said, Who art thou, Lord? And the Lord said, I am Jesus whom thou persecutest: it is hard for thee to kick against the pricks” (Acts 9:5).

Saul thought he was going after Christians but in reality he was persecuting Jesus. This encounter left a lasting impression on Saul. That day he met Jesus and his life was changed. He began working for Jesus rather than against Him. We know him better as the apostle Paul. As time draws short, Christians are again feeling Satan-inspired hatred. Many Christians today are being tortured and killed because of their faith, but it is Satan’s hatred for Jesus that is behind this evil.

Hatred, bloodshed, and death have been around since Cain killed Abel. World wars and more have put multitudes of folks in graves, but what’s coming is far worse than anything previously seen on earth. One day Christians will be raptured and the Restrainer will be taken out of the way.

“For the mystery of iniquity doth already work: only he who now letteth will let, until he be taken out of the way” (2 Thessalonians 2:7).

The Greek word “katechō” is translated “letteth” and means “to restrain, hinder – that which hinders Antichrist from making his appearance.” Once the Ekklesia is raptured the evil forces of Satan will not be restrained. There will be no let up of blood being spilled as most humans will be open to serving Satan. This is the scenario of the last seven years before Christ’s Second Coming. Paul said the “mystery of iniquity” was already at work when he wrote to the Thessalonians. We are even closer to Daniel’s 70th week and can see evil permeating our world. It will only get worse.

There are many indicators exploding on the scene that prove we are in the end times but this lack of love is certainly one of the most frightening. Why isn’t more being said about it? How many sermons are being preached about prophecy and the fact that it is being fulfilled daily? Are preachers scoffers who don’t really believe prophecy? “Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts, and saying, Where is the promise of his coming? For since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of the creation” (2 Peter 3:3-4).

I suspect that very few preachers want to jump into prophecy because they don’t want to be alarmists. We are much closer to the end of time than Peter was and things are worse so it would be a good thing for Christians to be alarmed. Maybe that would spur the lukewarm Christian to action. There are scoffers, but that should not stop us from looking at prophecy and being aware of its fulfillment. Jesus, Paul, and Peter all spoke about the end times. We have been in the last days since Jesus ascended to heaven, but the birth pains are getting closer. Heartlessness is growing.

There seems to be hopelessness all around. Where there is hopelessness love is easily forgotten. Instead of hopelessness we should feel excitement. We are living in the last days. Christian, the Rapture could happen at any time! That is very exciting. We need to share our hope by spreading the Gospel of Christ.

Even though many Christians are working diligently trying to show the love of God through their lives and through their speech, it is becoming more and more politically incorrect to profess Christ. In school our children are expected to read books that are filled with witchcraft and evil, but the Bible is not allowed. We can celebrate pagan holidays and pretend they are Christian, but whatever you do, don’t say “Merry Christmas.”

As time goes on this satanic hatred of Christians, which is really persecution of Jesus, will become worse. Satan will be allowed more rein to guide the feeble minded lost souls toward full blown hatred of all Christians. After the Rapture this hatred will be embodied by the son of perdition (the Antichrist). Christians will be gone, but there will be those who come to faith after the Rapture. They will be hated and killed.

While we, the Ekklesia of Christ, remain on earth we need to combat this insane cold heartedness at every turn. We need to turn the lost souls of this world to Jesus before it is too late. Sadly the apathy and ignorance within the Ekklesia today is obvious and the hate in the world goes almost unchecked. As Peter said there is a feeling that everything is the same as it always was, but that is just denial. Even many Christians spew hate and they look and act like the worldly people who don’t know Christ. As Christ’s followers we need to represent Him well in all we do. Yes, it might draw Satan’s attacks to us, but our example is Christ and we need to emulate Him.

Cold heartedness abounds and there is evidence everywhere. Millions of mothers kill their babies and call it abortion. Governments around the world slaughter their own citizens, and people walk into schools or shopping malls and open fire. Heartlessness is everywhere. Being on the cusp of Daniel’s 70th week can be discouraging as we who await the Rapture hold fast each day and anticipate His inevitable call for us to join Him in the clouds. While we wait we have work to do. No matter how much persecution comes our way we are to hold fast to the faith and occupy until He comes.

If you are a born-again believer in Christ but you’re not involved in fulfilling Christ’s command to spread the gospel, then you best get involved. Time’s a wasting. Do you really want to meet Him face to face and tell Him you were just too busy or too fearful to speak up for Him? Many Christians are giving in to fear, and that’s why the Ekklesia is floundering today. That’s why heartlessness is going unchecked.

Right now, while the Ekklesia remains a force on earth, heartlessness can be combated. Yes, it’s going to get worse and perhaps someday we will need to run and hide to keep from be slaughtered. Then again, perhaps we will be given the courage which the first century saints were given. As we stand in the face of certain death we will smile as we see Jesus standing before us.

Stephen was the first Christian martyr, and as he was being stoned he saw Heaven open up “But he, being full of the Holy Ghost, looked up steadfastly into heaven, and saw the glory of God, and Jesus standing on the right hand of God, and said, Behold, I see the heavens opened, and the Son of man standing on the right hand of God” (Acts 7:55-5).

We live in difficult times, but Christians need to honor God by showing His love to this wicked world.

“Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God. He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love” (1 John 4:7-8).

We who are born-again enjoy the presence of the Holy Spirit living within us; He is an awesome convicting Spirit. If we allow it He will use us to attract the lost and unsaved of this world to us, and thus to Christ.

“But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear: Having a good conscience; that, whereas they speak evil of you, as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse your good conversation in Christ” (1 Peter 3:15-16).

He may give us words as He moves us in our witnessing tasks, or He may simply use us as an example of what living “in Christ” looks like, but you must always be ready with an answer.

In these last days the Holy Spirit is working overtime to convince as many as possible to join God’s children at the marriage supper of the Lamb. Show God’s love to those who are lost and there will be fewer heartless people in this world.

God bless you all,

Ron and Nathele Graham

My Father’s Son :: by Ron and Nathele Graham

Ron Graham was called home on March 14, 2013. He began writing this commentary before his death and had asked me, Nathele Graham, to continue his service to our Lord by finishing what he began.


When I was a boy I looked up to my father and respected him. I never understood all that he did for me during those years, but now I know that he provided for me, he loved me, he taught me right from wrong and he made sacrifices for me. He did these things because he was my father. I wanted to be like him, but I didn’t see much resemblance.

My wife will tell you that I act like him sometimes. My wife loved my father and she could see him in me in ways that I couldn’t s It seems there was more of a resemblance than I was aware of. As I grew older I began to see that I began to look more like my father, but by then I was more concerned with resembling my Father in Heaven.

“But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name” (John 1:12).

I had received Christ and had become a son of God. The Greek word “teknon” is translated “sons” but in other verses is translated “children.” (This includes women, too.)

Many Christians have forgotten who they are in Christ. When we accept Christ we accept the spiritual rebirth promised to us.

“Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God: therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not” (1 John 3:1).

Being a son of God is a concept which you need to ponder in order for it to really sink in. Do you believe in Jesus? Have you received Him as your Savior? If so, He has given you the right…the power…to be God’s son. That is a privilege which should not be taken lightly. You have rights and privileges because of that birthright, but you also have great responsibility. If you are a son you need to honor your Father.

Many Christians have little or no intestinal fortitude when it comes to honoring God our Father. A spiritual battle rages all around us, but we forget who we are in Christ. Too often a Christian will join forces with the enemy instead of fighting for God in the unseen, but much felt, battle that rages all around us.

“In this the children of God are manifest, and the children of the devil: whosoever doeth not righteousness is not of God, neither he that loveth not his brother” (1 John 3:10).

Remember, our battle is against the evil powers of Satan and his minions.

“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places” (Ephesians 6:12).

Our power and strength to fight these battles comes from God our Father. As we mature and grow to resemble Him we are better able to fight against the enemy. Christians in every walk of life are entrenched in this battle. Our flesh battles against our spirit, but how long are we going to allow the flesh to win these battles? Ultimately God will win this war, but must hold up our end in each battle of the war. We need to fight together with our Father against the evils of our time.

“A son honoureth his father, and a servant his master: if then I be a father, where is mine honour? and if I be a master, where is my fear? saith the LORD of hosts unto you, O priests, that despise my name. And ye say, Wherein have we despised thy name?” (Malachi 1:6).

Indeed, where is His honor and where is the fear of the Lord? He is our Father and we are His sons, but how can we say we honor or fear God when we won’t even stand up for Him in a crowd? How can we honor Him if we resemble the worldly representatives of evil rather than resembling God our Father? Do we despise His name? Each time we allow the evil in this world to make us cower, we disrespect Him.

Do you pray in public, or are you afraid that you might offend someone? Do you dress in ways that resemble the world, or do you honor your Father by your modesty? Do you gossip and tell dirty jokes, or do you remember that your words also honor God? Think about your actions and words; ask yourself if they honor God. Before we accepted Christ we were a part of the fallen world, but now we need to honor God our Father with our obedience to Him.

“As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance” (1 Peter 1:14).

If we love God, and I’m sure all believers do, shouldn’t we stand up for Him and not be ashamed?

“For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek” (Romans 1:16).

God should be pleased to call us His children, but if we are ashamed of Him and won’t defend Him can we truly be His children? We are to honor God with our lives, because He purchased us with His blood. There should be nothing more important in this life than showing ourselves approved by the only One that counts. The world sees God through us, His children. If we deny Him with our lives then who will show the lost of this world who God truly is? God is love, but if we deny Him we deny His love.

The Apostles weren’t ashamed of God the Father, nor of Jesus Christ. They understood that they were joint-heirs with Christ and that they were not to deny God.

“And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together” (Romans 8:17).

Because of the obedience and boldness of these men we are given many examples of how we should act. One example is found in Acts chapter 4. Peter and John were arrested because they were publically preaching about Christ. Through the power of the Holy Spirit they had just convinced about five thousand people of the truth about Christ. Satan was angry; he had just lost a battle and wanted to prevent more losses. Satan inspired weak-minded men to bring charges against Peter and John, two who knew of the power of being a son of God.

They were brought before Jewish officials who commanded them not to speak or teach in the name of Jesus of Nazareth. This sounds a lot like what is happening in our world today. We are being told to not speak of Christ in public…basically to deny Him. Read carefully the response that Peter and John gave to these deceived men.

“But Peter and John answered and said unto them, Whether it be right in the sight of God to hearken unto you more than unto God, judge ye. For we cannot but speak the things which we have seen and heard” (Acts 4:19-20).

Do we fear man over God? If we are sons of God as the Scriptures tell us, how can we ever turn our backs on God’s truth, and ultimately on God Himself?

Followers of Jesus Christ can’t live and work in this world without knowing just how perverse a society we live in. God’s Word tells us that we are to live in the world but not be of the world. In other words, we are to grow to resemble God our Father instead of growing to resemble the world led by Satan.

We are sojourners just passing through on our way to the heavenly mansion which God has prepared for each of His children. This world needs to see Christians standing firm on God’s promises. They need to see us conforming to His Word instead of conforming His word to our sinful ways.

“That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world” (Philippians 2:15).

We need to reflect God’s one and only Son in our daily walk and shine as a guiding light.

Where is God’s honor and where is the respect for the Lord that should shine through His children? Standing firm is hardly spoken of among the throng of apathetic Christians in today’s society. Do we trust God our Father to accomplish His will through us, or do we place our trust in men? As sons of God we need to respect Him and honor Him with our lives. God is an awesome Father and we were chosen by Him to be His sons and daughters. We must stop being children of the flesh.

“That is, They which are the children of the flesh, these are not the children of God: but the children of the promise are counted for the seed” (Romans 9:8).

We cannot live our life based upon our fleshly desires and be God’s children. We are not saved based on the way we act, but our actions should be evidence of our salvation. How can we claim to be a son of God if we don’t resemble Him? God sees us as He sees His Son Jesus; that fact alone should humble us and continually convict us. As sons of God we should always ask ourselves, “What have I done with God’s love?” Have we taken it for granted as if we deserve it? God chooses to love us and that should humble us.

One of His commands is to honor your father and mother. Our earthly parents are only human and sometimes fail, but the command is still there. As born-again believers in Christ, God is our Father and He will never fail. Do you honor Him? We make decisions every day that affect the way the world looks at us. We are to honor our Father with our lives right now and forever. We belong to Jesus Christ and no matter what comes our way, no matter what kind of adversity is thrown in our faces we must stand firm.

The end of all things is coming soon. As we read the news headlines we know the Rapture is close, and sometime after that Daniel’s 70th week will begin. Today more than ever it is important to live our lives openly as sons of God. God has enough love for everyone and is willing to adopt everyone.

We need to resemble Him in order that more will come to Him before it’s too late. Everyone faces death and we never know when we will take our final breath. Before death or before the Rapture, you or someone you know needs to know Christ, and through Him become a son of God.

“Son of God.” That is a title that cannot be earned, but is only given to those who accept Christ. It is our choice to accept being a son of God, but it is His choice to love us even when we don’t act like sons.

“Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children; and walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling savor” (Ephesians 5:1-2).

Let’s make it our goal to be the best sons we can. I am my Father’s son, how about you?

God bless you all,

Ron & Nathele Graham