What is a man of God? How can we recognize him? My husband was one, and I have friends who are Godly men. Unfortunately, I also know many who are the opposite of Godly men. We all want our daughters and granddaughters to meet Godly young men, marry, and raise families, but where are those young men?

They are out there, but it seems as if they are few and far between. Many Godly men have moved on to be with the Lord, and they are missed. We need replacements for them here on Earth. Of course, if women are willing to settle for a man who doesn’t love the Lord his God with all his heart, soul, and mind, they settle for less than what God desires for them. Many women have taken over the God-ordained position of men, and Godly men are becoming extinct. New Christian men, need discipleship from older men who have surrendered to Christ and have followed Him for years.

God’s word is the standard by which Christians need to measure life; it never changes. The Apostle Paul encouraged older men to teach younger ones and to be the leaders of congregations.

“If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly. For a bishop must be blameless; as the steward of God; not selfwilled, not soon angry, not given to wine, no striker, not given to filthy lucre; But a lover of hospitality, a lover of good men, sober, just, holy, temperate; Holding fast the faithful word as he hath been taught, that he may be able by sound doctrine both to exhort and to convince the gainsayers” (Titus 1:6-9).

Many congregations near me seem to be unable to find God-fearing men to lead the congregation, so women are taking over leadership. That’s a very sad comment on the men of this area. We can recognize Godly men by the way they honor God and serve Him.

It’s the responsibility of every born-again believer in Christ to stand firm on the word of God and encourage all Christians to be focused on Christ. Every Christian needs to know Scripture and honor God by obeying His word and using it as the guide in life. Women aren’t to be in authority over men but need to encourage others to be Godly in their way of life. Men are to lead congregations.

“But speak thou the things which become sound doctrine: That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience” (Titus 2:1-2).

Women have an important place in Christianity, but it isn’t as a pastor or church leader. “The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed” (Titus 2:3-5). When Godly men won’t step up to their Christian duties, then women step in and take authority. We need Godly men who aren’t ashamed to be the men God wants them to be.

A Godly man will simply base all of his decisions upon Scripture. He’s the head of his family, and his wife and children can respect him. We all sin and have made poor decisions in life, but a Godly man will have repented and surrendered his will to God’s. After coming to Christ, his decisions are uncompromisingly based on Scripture, from the first verse in Genesis to the last in Revelation. He will be sure his children understand that God’s word is their guide in life. He will understand how seriously God sees sin, but he will also see the power and love of Christ’s sacrifice on the cross.

“There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit” (Romans 8:1). A Godly man walks after the Spirit.

Not all men are called to be pastors, but all Christian men are called to be the spiritual leader of their family. He will encourage Bible study in his children and will love his wife just as Christ loves His church.

“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself” (Ephesians 5:25-28).

Using Christ as an example, you will see that a Godly man will not abandon his family but will be a leader. He will be sure his children know Jesus. “Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband” (Ephesians 5:33). 

I can tell you from experience that being married to a Godly man is a blessing. Satan and his minions are trying to destroy families, and it’s not a coincidence that these verses regarding family are followed by verses admonishing us to put on the full armor of God to fight the spiritual fight against evil.

Ladies, when choosing a husband, remember to consult God about it. You’ll probably have children with him, and if he isn’t a Godly man, your children will have a very poor example to follow. Children aren’t fooled; many dads talk the talk, but when it comes to walking the walk, they stumble, and their children notice. Fathers, do your children try to talk to you while you’re looking at the Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition, or do they find you studying Scripture? If you follow the first option, your children will see a double standard of living… saying one thing while living another way. They will learn to disrespect you and God.

“And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath; but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4).

A Godly man makes a Godly father, and the children are blessed. A son will look to his father to learn to be a man. If that father doesn’t stand firm upon God’s word, the son won’t take God seriously. He’ll grow up to compromise truth. Do you sidestep the law of the land? Do you lie when it suits your purpose? That’s a poor example for both your sons and your daughters. Just as a son learns from his father, so does a daughter. Are you the type of man you want your daughter to marry? That’s a lot of responsibility on a man’s shoulders, but God will help you and guide you.

I watch the news and compare it to prophecy found in Scripture. People in general seem to have lost sight of God. There are riots happening because we finally have a president who is upholding the law of the land and deporting criminals. As I watch these riots, I can only wonder, “Where are the Godly men”? Where are the men who should have taught their children to respect authority and the law?

“Submit yourselves to every ordinance for the Lord’s sake: whether it be to the king, as supreme; Or unto governors, as unto them that are sent by him for the punishment of evildoers, and for the praise of them that do well. For so is the will of God, that with well doing ye may put to silence the ignorance of foolish men: As free, and not using your liberty for a cloke of maliciousness, but as servants of God. Honour all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honour the king” (1 Peter 2:13-17).

Fathers need to lead their children to understand that God’s law is superior to man’s law, but the laws of the land need to be obeyed as long as they don’t conflict with God’s law.

Prophecy is being fulfilled quickly, and the Rapture will happen soon. Men, don’t let your family slip away from honoring God. If there’s any question as to whether you or any of your family have truly accepted Christ for salvation, resolve that question right away. Don’t wait.

GODLY MEN

Words & Music by: Buddy Davis
http://www.answersingenesis.org

Lord, we need more Godly men
Who’ll stand on Your Word till the end;
Men who are strong, men that won’t bend.
Lord, we need more Godly men.

Lord, we need more Godly men
Who aren’t afraid to call sin sin,
‘Cause the world is desperately looking for them.
Lord, we need more Godly men

Lord, we need more husbands in love with their wives
And Daddies to cherish their kids;
Grandpas and uncles who’ll set an example
And tell them who Jesus is.

May the world see our eyes in the Bible
And our knees bent in prayer again,
From the senior preacher to the high school teacher.
Lord, we need more Godly men.

Lord, we need more heroes to praise the name of Christ
Instead of using it in vain;
Men who’ll place Jesus at the head of their homes
Like the family that You ordained.

May the world see us as Your disciples,
Reaching out to the world as a friend,
From the factory worker to the Wall Street broker.
Lord, we need more Godly men.

Lord, we need more Godly men
Who’ll stand on Your Word till the end;
Men who are strong, men that won’t bend.
Lord, we need more Godly men.

There are many Godly men who have been called Home and will receive a crown. My husband was one of those men, and he left behind three children, four grandchildren, and a wife who all loved him and respected him. He instilled a love of God into his family and set an example. Where are the men of God today? Where are the men who honor God without compromise? I’m sure there are many out there. Let me encourage you to make your presence known.

God bless you all,

Nathele Graham

twotug@embarqmail.com

Recommended prophecy sites:

www.raptureready.com
www.prophecyupdate.com
www.raptureforums.com

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“Pray for the peace of Jerusalem: they shall prosper that love thee” (Psalm 122:6).

 

Prayer is talking to God. Sometimes a person, especially a new Christian, is unsure of how to pray. How does a person approach God? He’s the Almighty, and it can be intimidating to talk to Him as a friend, yet with humility and respect. This fellowship with God is only possible through Jesus Christ.

“According to the eternal purpose which he purposed in Christ Jesus our Lord: In whom we have boldness and access with confidence by the faith of him” (Ephesians 3:11-12).

Don’t be drawn into the error of praying to “saints” or to Mary. Only pray through the blessed name of Jesus.

Sometimes, prayer is presented as a list of things that you want God to do for you. Remember, God can see the future and knows if what you want from Him is best. If His answer to your prayer is “No,” you can be sure that He has something better in store for you.

Jesus knew that people would have difficulty in going directly to God with prayer, so He included an example of how a prayer should be presented to God. The Sermon on the Mount contains much wisdom from Jesus, and prayer is part of that wisdom.

“But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking. Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him” (Matthew 6:7-8).

It’s comforting to know that God knows what I need even when I don’t. He will always provide for our needs, but He does like to hear from us in prayer. It’s good that Jesus gave us a structure for prayer, and we should all study it. We call it The Lord’s Prayer, but it’s really an example of prayer.

“After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name” (Matthew 6:9).

Notice that prayer is addressed to “Our Father,” not to Mary or to any man-made saint. Jesus told us we can talk to God as a father. Sometimes our human father isn’t a good example to follow, or many people don’t really know their father. God is the perfect Father. He will always listen and cares about your desires. A good human father will listen to what you want but will guide you to what is best. If you ask God for something that’s sinful, He will say “No,” but He will listen to you as you talk with Him. Talk with Him many times every day, and listen.

What is your desire? Do you only want selfish things, like a better job or more money in the bank? God wants the best for us, but our desire should align with God’s desire. He wants to reign on earth, and one day He will. We need to pray for that day to come.

“Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10).

We need to be a part of the answer to that prayer. Do you live a worldly life, partaking in the lusts of the flesh? That doesn’t show a desire for God’s rule in your life. In Heaven, there’s no desire to sin, and that will be a relief from this sin-saturated life on Earth. God’s kingdom will be established on Earth, but it will come after much tribulation and judgment from God. Christians will not go through the Great Tribulation but will be Raptured before it starts. You may have trouble believing there will be a Rapture, but as long as you believe in Jesus, you’ll be taken with all Christians. That’s our Blessed Hope. We can do our part by praying for it. Also by sharing the Gospel and living in a way that honors God. Do His will on Earth, and other people will see Him living in you.

One of the basic needs in life is food; we need it every day. The Israelites had to learn to trust God. Their lack of faith caused them to wander 40 years before entering the Promised Land. The trip from Egypt should have taken around two weeks, but they feared that God wouldn’t help them conquer their land. God had done miracles to save them, but they didn’t think He would save them from the Nephilim. When they didn’t have enough food to feed everybody, they complained to God that the slavery in Egypt was better than freedom.

“Then said the LORD unto Moses, Behold, I will rain bread from heaven for you; and the people shall go out and gather a certain rate every day, that I may prove them, whether they will walk in my law, or no. And it shall come to pass, that on the sixth day they shall prepare that which they bring in; and it shall be twice as much as they gather daily” (Exodus 16:4-5).

This was manna, the daily bread provided daily by God. It wasn’t welfare, because they had to do their part and gather it. God always provides, and we shouldn’t pray for a pantry filled with food, but ask Him to fill our needs for the day.

“Give us this day our daily bread” (Matthew 6:11).

Bread is important to all people. Especially the Bread of Life. “And Jesus said unto them, I am the bread of life: he that cometh to me shall never hunger; and he that believeth on me shall never thirst” (John 6:35). Please, Lord, give me my Daily Bread.

Sometimes it’s hard to forgive others. We are very aware of our own feelings and know when someone has offended us. Forgiveness is part of God’s kingdom on Earth.

“And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors” (Matthew 6:12). 

Jesus paid our sin-debt and purchased our redemption, so we need to forgive others as He’s forgiven us. We like forgiveness, but don’t like to forgive. That’s a human failure that needs to be changed. Christians should understand forgiveness because we have been forgiven so much. Sin separates us from God, but Jesus shed His blood to take our sins away. He is our example of how to live. He even forgave the people at the foot of the cross who had driven the nails into Him.

“Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do. And they parted his raiment, and cast lots” (Luke 23:34).

That tells us a lot about forgiveness. Those men didn’t ask to be forgiven, but Jesus asked for their forgiveness, even though they didn’t care. That needs to be our view of forgiving others.

Temptation comes to us all. Whether it’s a temptation to swipe a candy bar or the temptation for carnal sin, we are all tempted. Satan is at the bottom of all evil, is a liar, and places temptation in our way.

“And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen” (Matthew 6:13).

This is more properly translated “deliver us from the evil one.”

Temptation has been around since Genesis. When God forbids something, it’s for our own good. Satan can make the vilest thing look tempting, simply to get us to sin. God forbade Adam and Eve to eat from the tree of knowledge of good and evil, so that’s the thing that the serpent used to tempt Eve. There was plenty of food to eat in the Garden of Eden, but the serpent made the forbidden fruit look like the most desirable food. Eve should have never spoken to the serpent, but she did. God said not to eat the fruit, but Eve tried to be even more “holy.”

“And the woman said unto the serpent, We may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden: But of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God hath said, Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest ye die” (Genesis 3:2-3).

When she added to God’s word, Satan knew he could befuddle her. He made it look as if God was trying to ruin their fun. When God forbids something, it’s always for our benefit. Eve ate the fruit, then Adam ate, and they did die (they lost their immortality). If you’re tempted to do something God has forbidden, it’s the evil one who’s tempting you. In this fallen world, we are all dead in our sins, but the Good News is that Jesus Christ stepped into His creation to shed His blood as the final sacrifice to take our sin away. True faith in Him will bring eternal life.

“Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you” (James 4:7). 

Stay close to God, and pray without ceasing.

The Lord’s Prayer is one of the first prayers we learn as children. It’s a model for prayer throughout our life. Sometimes there isn’t time for a long, formal prayer. That’s when we pray a “bullet” prayer – quick and to the point. If you’re in traffic and a car is heading toward you, you don’t have time to follow this example of prayer. People tend to turn to God as a last resort, but He should be our first line of defense.

“Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6-7).

The Greek word “merimnao” is translated “be careful,” but the definition is “anxious, troubled with cares.” If you don’t talk with God about your finances or job situation, you’ll be very anxious. If you do talk to Him about everything, you’ll have His perfect peace.

What is prayer to you? Is it a list of things you require from God? Certainly, we can go boldly before God and petition Him for things we think we need, but we must always remember that He is sovereign and knows whether or not what we ask is what is best for us. God knows that if you pray for a certain thing, that thing may turn out to be all wrong. It’s not always easy to accept God’s perfect knowledge of what’s best, but it’s always important to be humble in our petitions.

Jesus knew how to pray, and we would be wise to study His prayers. When He prayed in Gethsemane, He knew He was about to be arrested and beaten. Worse than that, He knew that it would be the first time in eternity He was going to feel the full weight of sin – our sin. That sin would separate Him from God the Father and God the Holy Spirit, which was something He had never faced before. Alone in the garden, He prayed.

“…and prayed, saying, O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt” (Matthew 25:39b).

We all face things that overwhelm us with fear and worry. If we can remember to go to God in prayer when life is in turmoil, then submit to His will, He will help us through the turmoil.

The book of Hebrews is an interesting study. It was written to help Jewish people who had come to Christ understand that Jesus is superior to the Law and to angels and to humans. We can all learn from this book. Jesus is described as our High Priest. The Aaronic priesthood was ordained by God, and the Jewish people understood the role of the High Priest. He could enter into the Holy of holies once a year and put the blood of the sacrificed animal on the altar to atone for sin. When Jesus died, He put His own blood on the altar in Heaven, and human priests are no longer necessary for intercession between humans and God.

“For if the blood of bulls and goats, and the ashes of an heifer sprinkling the unclean, sanctifieth to the purifying of the flesh: How much more shall the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered himself without spot to God, purge your conscience from dead works to serve the living God?” (Hebrews 9:13-14).

Jesus sprinkled His own blood on the altar in Heaven, and we no longer need priests to intercede for us. Christians are blessed to be able to take our prayers and petitions directly to God.

“Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need” (Hebrews 4:16).

We don’t have to be fearful of God, just humble and respectful. We can speak to Him without the need for a priest. We can speak boldly but not arrogantly. Never forget that when we pray, we are talking directly to God, and we need to be humble. We confess our sins directly to Him and ask forgiveness directly from Him. Jesus made this possible.

Brothers and sisters, we are heading for very troubled times. Christians will be taken in the Rapture, but until then, Satan will be trying harder to bring fear into our lives.

In the letter to the Ephesians, Paul talks about the importance of marriage, and how a husband should behave, how a wife should behave, and how children should behave. This structure of family and values is under satanic attack. Men have walked away from being husbands and fathers, while wives want full authority. Too often, there isn’t even a marriage. All of this is encouraged by the evil one and his lies. Paul goes on to talk about spiritual warfare and who we should fight against.

“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places” (Ephesians 6:12).

This is a spiritual battle, and we need God fighting for us. Paul encourages us to put on the full armor of God, then names the individual parts of that armor. Prayer is part of that armor.

“Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints” (Ephesians 6:18).

If you’re a Christian, you’re a saint and need prayer. Satan hates you, but God loves you. We need to pray for each other. When you use the model that Jesus gave, you can’t go wrong. Worship God for His holiness, and Satan will flee.

The Lord’s Prayer is a model, and as you become more comfortable with talking with God, you’ll learn to pray with your own words. Pray continually.

God bless you all

Nathele Graham

twotug@embarqmail.com

Recommended prophecy sites:

www.raptureready.com
www.prophecyupdate.com
www.raptureforums.com

All original scripture is “theopneustos,” God-breathed.

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“Pray for the peace of Jerusalem: they shall prosper that love thee” (Psalm 122:6).