The Power of Fatherhood :: By Sean Gooding

Proverbs 4:1-4

“Hear, my children, the instruction of a father, and give attention to know understanding; 2 For I give you good doctrine: Do not forsake my law. 3 When I was my father’s son, tender and the only one in the sight of my mother, 4 He also taught me, and said to me: “Let your heart retain my words; keep my commands, and live.”

I know that this is a prophecy website, and often, I try to work with that in mind and do things that are relevant to the end times. However, this weekend, our church is privileged to be baptizing 2 people and also dedicating a baby. As I was preparing for the dedication, the topic of fatherhood came to my mind, and I began to do some research about the power of fatherhood. I was able to watch a few videos and read through some papers, and wow, were my eyes opened!

The attack on fatherhood has been considerable over the past 50+ years. In just about every modern show, modern commercial, and modern movie, the dad is the buffoon, the loveable but ignorant man there by the sidelines while the moms, daughters, and grandmas solve the problems. The father is most often the bad guy, and more often than not, when a ‘thank you’ speech is given, the mom’s place is held in higher regard than that of the dad.

Make no mistake, this is an attack of the enemy; Satan knows that strong fathers are his biggest enemies to all manner of sin and evil. Strong fathers are the biggest obstacle to Satan getting a hold of our kids, and the data proves it over and over again. The attack on fathers and fatherhood is a spiritual one that comes from the depths of Hell itself. This attack has weakened our homes, our families, our churches, and our nations, and is killing Christianity from the inside out. God is not a feminist. This will rile some, but if you read through and see for yourself, you will understand the power of good fathers.

Here is a truth that you rarely hear: a home where there is a single father is just as successful at raising kids as a home where Mom and Dad are married. And it is way more successful than a home with a single mom. Now, let us be clear; there are single moms because of abuse or rape; there are single moms because she is a widow, and the like. But since about 70% of all divorces in North America are instigated by women, a lot of single-mom homes are deliberate. Here is what we know for sure: there are no gray areas here. I need the men to listen and pass this on to your young men. If we ever want to see revival in our churches and so much more as we see the Lord’s Day approaching, we need to pay attention.

From the ‘How Father Benefit Families’ in the Box Elder Family Support Center: When Dad is present, there is an 80% less chance that children will be in prison, 71% less chance of High School dropouts, 60% less chance of youth suicide, and a 90% less chance of their being runaways. From the Knowledge of Freedom website, in a single-father home, kids are 5 times less likely to commit suicide, 9 times less likely to drop out of school, 10 times less likely to be involved with drugs, 14 times less likely for the boys to commit rape, 20 times less likely to go to jail, and 32 times less likely to run away.

These are about the same rate for a home where Mom and Dad are present. Fatherhood is essential to the well-being of a child, even more so than mothers. And this is not to diminish the power and the place of moms, but the data clearly shows that fathers make the difference. Ironically, Father’s Day is one of the least celebrated holidays of the year. Christmas and Mother’s Day are the top two. Father’s Day is not even in the top 10.

Fathers are very, very important, and Satan has made it so that they have become the side joke of the family. Imagine how our entire world would be different if fathers were given the pre-eminence they deserved in TV shows, commercials, and the like. Could you imagine if our prisons had 60% fewer people in them and our children stopped killing themselves and stopped doing drugs? Yes, we can if fathers were there in the home.

Let me give you a bit more: girls who have their fathers with them and have interacted with them have better self-esteem and a low Body Mass Index (BMI); they are less likely to be obese, and with better self-esteem, they are less likely to engage in sexual relations in their teens and put themselves at risk for abuse by boys around them. We know all this, and yet, the attack on fathers goes on unabated, and we watch our kids suffer and literally die. Why? Why is this so important?

Satan knows the importance of having the dad as the spiritual leader of the family. In a paper called Theology for the People by Nick Cady, we find this astonishing conclusion from researching spiritual leadership in homes:

Another survey found that if a child is the first person in a household to become a Christian, there is a 3.5% probability everyone else in the household will follow. If the mother is the first to become a Christian, there is a 17% probability everyone else in the household will follow. However, when the father is first, there is a 93% probability everyone else in the household will follow.

Satan knows that the way to pad Hell is by taking dads out of the way. He and his cohorts here on Earth have done a good job. By the way, take an honest look and see that the people who are the biggest promoters of the single-mom home are ALL married. Notice that the people who make a lot of these policies are married, their kids get married, and are raised in dual-parent homes. Now, not all men are good men, and not all fathers are good fathers. But what we do know for sure is that men who marry young, have kids, and stay married provide safe, strong households for their families. Married men with kids are the highest wage earners by far, and the importance of providing for another is what helps most men to grow up and stop being boys.

Our homes need good, strong fathers, our churches need good, strong fathers, and our nation needs good, strong fathers. Without them, we are all dying a slow, painful death. What is even sadder is that we know the solution, and we are doing nothing to solve the problem. Nothing teaches you about God’s love as a Heavenly Father like being a father yourself. Nothing teaches you about God’s unconditional love like being a father, and nothing helps you to understand God’s interactions with us like being a father. It is time for us to stop Satan from winning, stop him from killing fatherhood. Fathers, be wise men, godly men, serving men, kind men, loving men, patient men, and the kind of men that teach their children about God – and rescue a dying generation.

Never let anyone diminish the power of fatherhood. Why? We interact primarily with God as a Father. It is how we are to address Him, Our Father. Romans 8: 14-16, “For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. For you did not receive a spirit of slavery that returns you to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship, by whom we cry, ‘Abba! Father!’ The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children.

God bless you,

Dr. Sean Gooding

Pastor of Mississauga Missionary Baptist Church

Pastor of Bethany Baptist Church

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Braver Angels :: By The Gospelist

Abraham Lincoln was perhaps the greatest president of the nineteenth century. If a president’s greatness is measured by his devotion to freedom, he was second only to George Washington.

He put his life and his sacred honor on the line for one reason only. In his first inaugural address, he proclaimed:

“One section of our country believes slavery is right and ought to be extended, while the other believes it is wrong and ought not to be extended. This is the only substantial dispute.”

Some in the South attempted to use Scripture to support slavery by pointing out that the Bible heavily regulated it. However, the ‘slavery’ being written of in the Bible was more in line with indentured servitude.

Its purpose was to repay a debt that was incurred through economics or war.

The inability to pay a debt threatened the entire society in ancient times. There was no declaring bankruptcy. When debts were not paid, business failed. When debts were not paid on a large scale, societies failed.

If the South took the Bible seriously, all they had to do was look up the Ten Commandments to find their error. It was right there in Commandment number Eight:

“Thou shalt not steal” (Exodus 20:15).

The refusal to pay wages to those who had not incurred a debt was, according to God, the theft of someone’s labor. God had made it clear that he would demand an accounting from those who defraud a laborer of his wages.

The multitudes of dead bodies during the Civil War were God’s accounting for the South’s theft of the labor of others. This was the costliest sin of the nation, and reparations, in the form of blood, have been fully paid for this transgression.

Abraham Lincoln tried desperately to correct this sin and bring the nation together. Despite his best efforts, he failed.

One side was on the side of God; the other was in rebellion against God. War was necessary, and fortunately, the right side won.

Now, in this modern age, we are once again embroiled in conflicts that threaten the very fabric of our nation. As it was during the Civil War in 1861, it is Republicans who (are supposed to) stand for liberty vs. Democrats who stand for Godlessness and State control.

The Democrats, who were fighting for slavery, are once again threatening civil war against those of us who stand on the side of freedom and Godliness.

The Democrats fight to inculcate the values of the LGBT into our society; the Godly believe that homosexuality is rebellion against the Lord.

The Democrats have profaned marriage with ‘gay marriage’; the Godly believe that marriage is sacred, as it represents the union of Christ and his church.

The Democrats push the ideology of ‘Transgenderism’; the Godly believe that this is a demonic ‘social construct’ from the pits of hell.

The Democrats support the sexual mutilation of children; the Godly believe that the kingdom of heaven is for such as them.

The Democrats bear false witness against their neighbors by calling their political opponents ‘racists’; the Godly believe that this type of bearing false witness is a terrible sin against God.

The Democrats used the Flu Bug Hysteria to take away our civil rights; the Godly believe in freedom and liberty.

The Democrats have pushed the pagan, totalitarian ideology of climate change on our society; the Godly have rejected paganism.

The Democrats demand that sexually irresponsible women be allowed to kill their child in the womb; the Godly believe that the child is fearfully and wonderfully made.

The Democrats believe they can corrupt our governmental agencies to imprison or assassinate their political opponents; the Godly believe that this is third-world tyranny.

Democrat prosecutors are eager to deprive people who engage in self-defense of justice by imprisoning them (Daniel Penny); the Godly know that self-defense is approved of by God.

There seems to be no way to bridge the divide that now exists between the wicked and the Godly in this society.

Those in rebellion against God have congregated once again on the Democrat side, while Christians have been forced to congregate on the Republican side.

Neither side of the political aisle likes Christians very much; we have joined the Republican Party because the Godless Democrats hate us more than they do.

The wicked are becoming increasingly more wicked with no sign of an end to their depravity. Those who are disgusted by their evil are becoming increasingly angry at the constant injustices that they perpetrate as they prey on the righteous.

To the rescue rides St. Stephens Episcopal Church in Ridgefield, Connecticut. They have taken it upon themselves to act as mediators for the political conflicts of this generation.

They have a plan to bridge the divide that plagues this nation.

It is right that this group emerged from a church that has abandoned the word of God and now acts on its own traditions and beliefs apart from the Bible. A quick review of the beliefs of a standard Episcopal Church leaves no doubt where they stand:

We believe that God loves you – no exceptions.

The Episcopal Church embraces a legacy of inclusion, aspiring to tell and exemplify God’s love for every human being; people of all genders and sexual orientations serve as bishops, priests, and deacons in our church. Laypeople and clergy work together in leadership and governance.

They are a dead church that has abandoned the word of God in favor of worldly nonsense.

Out of the “North Hall” of one of these churches arose the group ‘Braver Angels.’

Their primary focus is to ‘depolarize Americans’ to take the passion out of politics. They host debates so that people on different sides of the political aisle can respectfully argue with one another under the watchful eye of a moderator.

They hold workshops like “Skills for Disagreeing Better,” where you can get to know those who disagree with you and understand their point of view.

Jessie Mannisto, the “watchful eye” who serves as debate monitor, claims he has no interest in trying to make everyone a moderate. He just wants to take the emotion out of politics.

Which is how you turn people into moderates.

The problem is that Mannisto fails to explain how pro-life Catholics being thrown in prison by Godless Democrats for praying in front of abortion clinics is not ‘polarizing.’ What good are “Skills for Disagreeing Better” going to do you when your political opponents decide to throw you in a gulag for disagreeing with them?

Jessie bills himself as a master at helping us address difficult questions that we are facing as a society so we can function as a single country.

For instance, if a blue-haired teacher at your local school believes your little boy should be transitioned to a little girl, and your sick government is backing the blue-haired teacher, he will help you come to terms with any intransigence you may wish to display when you lose in court.

Braver Angels are professionals at addressing the issue of “Affective polarization (AP).” This is the phenomenon where one’s feelings toward members of their own party are positive while holding negative views of the opposing party.

It is “affective polarization” that leads conservative voters to think of their liberal counterparts as morally corrupt. The conservatives rely on a Godly interpretation of their character and behavior which, in Biblical terms, describes their opposition as reprobates.

The Godly understand that those who hold immoral positions have been abandoned by God due to their lack of faith.

On the other hand, the liberal turns to slinging insults ending in ‘-ist’ and ‘phobic,’ which they learned from those who proclaim social justice. The Episcopal Church has abandoned the Gospel and now proclaims this false gospel to the goats in their congregation.

And that is where the main problem lies.

The Braver Angels believe bridging this gap is crucial because these differences can dissolve friendships and family bonds.

A more productive strategy for dealing with friends or family members who are reprobates is to share the Gospel with them. By doing so, your problem will be solved one way or the other.

They will either repent or discontinue the relationship. Although the latter is painful, the lack of stress in your life will help to alleviate any hurt feelings.

One of Braver Angels’ more powerful interventions is to dissolve stereotypes. According to this group, asking yourself why someone thinks differently than you can stimulate self-awareness as the listener.

So, we conservatives need to ask our opponents why they think it is fine to kill unborn children for the convenience of sexually irresponsible people. However, those who think differently than I do does not stimulate any self-awareness on my part. It simply helps me to identify the spiritual condition of those who disagree.

Their foolish hearts are darkened.

Due to their Godlessness, we cannot expect liberals to be well-grounded emotionally or to become more introspective as they ponder our question.

In fact, they will immediately attack you as a misogynist who hates women. That false accusation will be followed by how we only want to control women’s bodies because we are fascists.

My guess is that the only people being ‘depolarized’ by these loons are Christians.

After that, we can move on to the issue of homosexuality. We Christians can assert our position that homosexuality is a terrible sin in the eyes of God and that homosexuals need to repent.

That will be responded to with accusations of ‘homophobia’ and how we hate people different than ourselves. The people on the left will then threaten our livelihoods should we dare to continue to express our beliefs publicly.

Our ‘anger’ at the left is righteous indignation in the face of evil. The anger of the liberal is based on mindless, Godless idiocy that cannot be reasoned with. They work diligently to defend licentiousness, which is slavery, not freedom.

Freedom contains a strong moral component that the left abhors.

And they work diligently to create a political system that is designed to harm those who disagree with them.

We will need some really brave angels to moderate these discussions.

We are reminded by the ‘Braver Angels’ that this whole process is really about creating compassion for different perspectives. When we accomplish this, depolarization is the result.

When psychopaths demand that you, as a parent, allow your underage child to choose his gender, you really need to develop greater compassion for the demanders’ point of view.

Once your little boy is transitioned to a little girl, you will then experience the joys of depolarization. Or else.

Abraham Lincoln tried to ‘depolarize’ the country and reason with those who were in rebellion against God. He was a man of honor, and he won the war, and his reward was assassination.

We will conclude with Abraham Lincoln’s closing remarks in this address to the nation:

“I am loath to close. We are not enemies, but friends. We must not be enemies. Though passion may have strained, it must not break our bonds of affection. The mystic chords of memory, stretching from every battlefield and patriot grave to every living heart and hearth-stone all over this broad land, will yet swell the chorus of the Union when again touched, as surely they will be by the better angels of our nature.”

Lincoln did try to depolarize the nation with his ‘better angels’ speech. However, once he understood that there was no middle ground and that one side had to be defeated, he acted accordingly.

Instead of attempting to appeal to our “better angels,” Lincoln may have had more success had he issued the call for repentance to the South.

Had we called upon the Lord instead of our better and braver angels, a lot of death and destruction might have been avoided. It would have taken a lot of pastors who were strong in their faith and sound in their doctrine to help him pull that off; however, just as it was at that time, one side must be defeated. As Christians, we attempt to do this spiritually with the call for repentance, and politically by voting for the party that at least publicly respects God’s moral law.

The left will use assassination, prison, and severe violations of civil rights against their political opponents should they take full control of our political system. No free person should vote themselves into the type of system they want because they will not allow you to vote your way out.

The fact remains that those who stand on the side of licentiousness and refuse to repent must be defeated spiritually and politically, not reasoned with.

Let’s try to get it right this time.

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