Love, Marriage, and Babies :: By Nathele Graham

Jesus loves the little children, all the children of the world. Red and yellow, black, and white. They are precious in His sight. Jesus loves the little children of the world. These words were written by C. Herbert Woolston, and they have been sung for many decades. The words hold a truth that we often overlook. Jesus loves children, and they are precious to Him.

One of sweetest events described in the Bible was when children were brought to Jesus. He just had a discussion with the Pharisees about marriage and divorce. They wanted to trap Jesus, but that just wasn’t going to happen.

“And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Matthew 19:4-6).

Marriage is important to God and needs to be treated as the holy union that it is. A Christian shouldn’t be yoked in marriage to a non-Christian because there’s no moral guide for the non-Christian, and the children in that marriage are hindered in believing in Jesus.

“Then were there brought unto him little children, that he should put his hands on them, and pray: and the disciples rebuked them. But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven. And he laid his hands on them, and departed thence” (Matthew 19:13-14).

Jesus loved the children and rebuked the disciples for shooing them away. It’s interesting that two important issues of today were addressed by Jesus in just a few verses: one man/one woman marriage and children.

Babies and children haven’t been around since the creation of the world, but they have been around since just after the Fall of Man. Adam’s sin caused him and Eve to be expelled from the Garden of Eden. Scripture records that, after they were expelled, the first human baby was created within a God-ordained marriage.

“And Adam knew Eve his wife; and she conceived and bare Cain, and said, I have gotten a man from the LORD” (Genesis 4:1).

Can you imagine? They had the burden of guilt for eating the forbidden fruit, they paid the price for that sin by being evicted from the Garden, and now they were living in a world separated from God. Still God blessed them. Eve gave birth to a son, and Eve recognized that baby was a gift from God. It’s not easy being a first-time parent, but Adam and Eve had no examples to follow. They were the very first parents. The joy of parenting didn’t stop with Cain.

“And she again bare his brother Abel…” (Genesis 4:2a).

Together, Adam and Eve had many sons and daughters. God’s design for a family was established: A man, his wife, and children.

Children are a blessing, and from the moment of conception they are human…valuable humans with feelings and needs. They need to be loved and protected. When does God become aware of a child? Scripture reveals that, before we were even conceived, He knew us.

“Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations” (Jeremiah 1:5).

God knew Jeremiah would grow into a man who would be a great prophet. Every baby has the potential to become a person who honors God or one who rebels. Abel honored God. He gave a proper offering and respected God. On the other hand, Cain gave less than his best to God but still expected God to be pleased with him. When God rejected his offering, Cain plotted to kill Abel. Every child learns to make choices, and loving parents need to guide that child to properly serve the Lord. God does know what path each person will take, but He gives the same opportunity to make Godly choices to everyone.

Godly parents are sorely missing from our world today. When God established the family unit, it was to be sure that people were provided for. A strong protective husband and father will be sure his family is provided for and that no harm comes to them; he will lead his family in ways to honor God. A wife and mother will nurture and care for the family as well as enforce a Godly way of life. Today the family unit is under satanic attack. Sexual relations are perverted and corrupted into sinful activity that mocks marriage and God.

“Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves” (Romans 1:24).

When a society begins the descent into sin and depravity, it starts with a few small steps down the path of destruction. I remember when women were ashamed to be pregnant outside of wedlock, but wouldn’t murder the baby, and the man would take responsibility for his actions. Today women say “It’s my body and my choice.” The choice comes before the baby is created. Instead of campaigning to keep abortion legal, we need to campaign for abstinence.

“For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: and likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet” (Romans 1:26-27).

What is it that they receive in themselves because of their unnatural acts? Syphilis, gonorrhea, AIDS, and other sexually transmitted disease. The slippery slope of sin is not a pleasant slide.

Just as Scripture prophesied of the last days, the love of many has grown cold. Women are viciously fighting for government laws giving them the right to murder their children. Instead of teaching abstinence to both sons and daughters, the solution to a woman’s pregnancy is abortion. This is nothing less than a satanic blood-letting ritual. In ancient times children were sacrificed to demonic gods, and even the Jewish people participated. God saw it as an abomination.

“And they built the high places of Baal, which are in the valley of the son of Hinnom, to cause their sons and their daughters to pass through the fire unto Molech; which I commanded them not, neither came it into my mind that they should do this abomination, to cause Judah to sin” (Jeremiah 32:35).

Abortion is no less of an abomination. Children are being sacrificed today, and the government has sanctioned it just as it has sanctioned perverting marriage. Christians know better. Well, Christians should know better but many ignore Scripture. Scripture is our guide to how we are to live. We cannot support any activity that is un-Scriptural. That means that, even if we determine not to have an abortion or participate in sexual activity outside of a one man/one woman marriage, we aren’t to turn a blind eye to such things.

“Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same but have pleasure in them that do them” (Romans 1:32).

Christians are not to condone sin, even if the government sanctions it.

Remember Cain? He had the same upbringing as Abel, yet he chose to dishonor God by doing things his own way. The sacrifice he made wasn’t one that was acceptable to God, but easy for him.

“And in process of time it came to pass, that Cain brought of the fruit of the ground an offering unto the LORD. And Abel, he also brought of the firstlings of his flock and of the fat thereof. And the LORD had respect unto Abel and to his offering: but unto Cain and to his offering he had not respect. And Cain was very wroth, and his countenance fell” (Genesis 4:3-5).

Abel brought an animal blood sacrifice, but Cain gave lip service. A blood sacrifice is atonement for sin, but God never, and I mean never, requires a person to give a human blood sacrifice. God Himself gave the ultimate sacrifice for our sin.

“Forasmuch as ye know that ye were not redeemed with corruptible things, as silver and gold, from your vain conversation received by tradition from your fathers; but with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot” (1 Peter 1:18-19).

“Vain conversation” is better translated “empty way of life”…one of sin and rebellion to God. The precious blood of Jesus Christ, God incarnate, will take away sin. Whatever you have done in the past is forgiven when you truly accept the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus for your redemption. Christ’s sacrifice has to be accepted by each person individually because the faith of a parent or grandparent won’t save you from your sin.

If you have sinned, and every person has, then you need to come to a true understanding of your sin and turn to Jesus for forgiveness. A changed life is evidence of a changed heart. Turn from your sin. If you, like Cain, have only given a half-hearted sacrifice on your own terms, then there’s a real question as to whether or not you’ve truly accepted Christ’s ultimate sacrifice.

“I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service” (Romans 12:1).

This means we stop embracing sin and begin to live for Christ. If you have ever had an abortion, performed an abortion, chose a homosexual relationship, or any other sin for that matter, there is forgiveness through the blood of Jesus. Turn away from your sin. While we live on this side of heaven, we will face temptations and will continue to sin; but if we sacrifice our own will to God, then we will not continue to embrace sin. With His help we’ll overcome the sin we struggle with.

“For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek” (Romans 1:16).

Christ’s forgiveness knows no ethnic limitations. Red or yellow, black or white, we are all precious in His sight. His love and forgiveness is there for everyone. If you have accepted Him, then don’t be ashamed of Him. In the name of Jesus, don’t be ashamed to stand up for love, marriage, and babies.

God bless you all,

Nathele Graham

twotug@embarqmail.com

www.straitandnarrowministry.com

ron@straitandnarrowministry.com

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Supernatural: Good and Evil :: By Nathele Graham

Many Christians tend to see things with an “either/or” mindset. Either something is good or it’s bad. The distinction between good and bad is usually dictated by a particular denomination. Too often denominational teachings aren’t as Biblical as they should be. God’s word is the authority, and it hasn’t changed. Every Christian needs to look at all things through the lens of Scripture and act in a Biblical way.

For instance, Scripture says not to judge. On the other hand, it also says we are to discern. There’s a fine line between discernment and judgment, and God gave us Scripture to use as a guide for our own actions and to discern the actions of others. We cannot expect people who haven’t accepted Christ to act according to Scripture, and we cannot allow them to be members of a congregation.

Unfortunately, there are a lot of un-Scriptural ways entering into many congregations because Christians are so afraid of judging that they forget to discern. Even people who claim to be Christians embrace sin and must turn away from it or leave the congregation. Satan is trying hard to destroy the Christian faith.

Jesus related a series of parables regarding the Kingdom of God, and one warns of satanic forces entering congregations.

“Another parable put he forth unto them, saying, The kingdom of heaven is likened unto a man which sowed good seed in his field: but while men slept, his enemy came and sowed tares among the wheat, and went his way” (Matthew 13:24-25).

Jesus gives the interpretation of this parable. The One who sows the good seed is the Son of man (Jesus), the field is the world, the good seeds are the “children of the kingdom,” and the tares are the children of the wicked one (see Matthew 13:37-43).

This “infiltration” by the enemy is growing as God’s truth is being ignored by Christians. As Christians sleep, Satan grows strong. We can’t control the tares of the world, but we need to control ourselves and what is allowed into our congregations. Only Scripture will help you discern the difference between good and evil so as not to allow the tares to take over. If a non-believer wants to become a part of a Christian fellowship, they must first accept Christ and turn from their wicked ways.

The battle is real, but it’s a supernatural war we’re in.

The Merriam-Webster online dictionary defines supernatural as:

1) relating to an order of existence beyond the visible observable universe, especially of or relating to God or a god, demigod, spirit, or devil.

2) (a) departing from what is usual or normal, especially so as to appear to transcend the laws of nature. (b) attributed to an invisible agent (such as a ghost or spirit).

Scripture tells us to stay away from certain things such as drug use and witchcraft because both allow demonic, supernatural forces to influence our lives. There are many other things which need to be avoided in order to serve the Lord.

“Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God” (Galatians 5:19-21).

This is a short list of satanic practices which are the tares infiltrating Christian congregations. If you look up these words in a good concordance, you’ll see that many of these practices (such as homosexuality and other sexual sin) have a stronghold in Christian congregations. The word “witchcraft” is from the Greek word “pharmakeia” which is using or administering drugs, poisoning, and magical arts. Be very careful when taking drugs that alter your mind and behavior…prescription or non-prescription.

When a person comes to Christ, there must be an attitude change as well as a heart change. Jesus forgives all sin, but there can be no forgiveness without repentance.

We need to be extremely cautious about the supernatural. There’s both good and evil in the supernatural world. Many Christians are so afraid of embracing the evil supernatural that we forget that God is supernatural. There are good spirits of God and evil spirits of Satan. We need to discern the difference. Most Christians just group all supernatural activity together and don’t allow the Holy Spirit to work through us. By denying the supernatural power of God, we allow evil to grow stronger.

Do we really believe what we read in Scripture? God has done many supernatural things throughout history, but do we believe it? For instance, during the Exodus from Egypt, God showed His supernatural protection over and over to the Israelites, but they kept disbelieving. If the plagues weren’t enough to convince them that God was working supernaturally to benefit them, the parting of the Red Sea should have convinced them that Almighty God was helping them supernaturally.

“And the LORD said unto Moses, Wherefore criest thou unto me? speak unto the children of Israel, that they go forward: but lift thou up thy rod, and stretch out thine hand over the sea, and divide it: and the children of Israel shall go on dry ground through the midst of the sea” (Exodus 14:15-16).

Many people have tried to give a natural explanation for this, but there is none. This was a supernatural act of God. Not only did He part the sea so the Israelites could pass through; He didn’t force them to walk through a muddy, swampy bog. They walked on dry ground. The Israelites passed through safely, but when the Egyptian army entered, they were all drowned. That’s the supernatural hand of God at work.

There are many more incidences just as miraculous as this. Water gushed from a rock, manna fell from heaven, a pillar of cloud led them by day and a pillar of fire by night, and so on. Instead of embracing the supernatural protection of God, they kept yearning to return to the supernatural demonic evil found in Egypt. Their disbelief stopped them from entering the Promised Land. God’s supernatural power is as real today as it was back then, and we still deny His power.

Scripture reveals many, many supernatural events that God made happen, such as Balaam’s donkey speaking to him, Elijah and his showdown with the prophets of Baal, Daniel in the den of lions, and so many, more that I can’t list them all.

God’s supernatural powers are also clearly seen in the New Testament. Beginning with the Virgin Birth, we see God’s power working through the Holy Spirit. Examples of the power of the Holy Spirit are seen when Jesus miraculously healed people and cast out demons, when He walked on water, when the Holy Spirit appeared as tongues of fire on the day of Pentecost, when the Apostles healed people, and so on. After His resurrection, Jesus supernaturally entered a locked room where His disciples were hiding.

“Then the same day at evening, being the first day of the week, when the doors were shut where the disciples were assembled for fear of the Jews, came Jesus and stood in the midst, and saith unto them, Peace be unto you” (John 20:19).

Jesus, who had been crucified and buried, entered a locked room. That’s supernatural. If the disciples hadn’t accepted the fact that Jesus was supernaturally there with them, they never would have been filled with the Holy Spirit nor established the Christian faith. They did great things because they understood that they served a supernatural Saviour and weren’t afraid to allow Him to work through them. Many people today claim that the power given by the Holy Spirit stopped with the Apostles. That’s a lie which Satan has spread so that Christians will deny the power we have through Christ.

Make no mistake. Satan and his demons are real and a powerful supernatural force. Christians need to resist him and fight against the evil he spews.

“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places” (Ephesians 6:12).

The entities mentioned here are evil satanic beings. Why don’t Christians believe God’s word? This fight, or wrestling, is with us every day; and if you’re not fighting against it, then you might ask yourself, ‘Which side am I on’?

Everyday there are news stories about one evil manifestation or another. Have you heard of Slender Man? He’s supposedly just an internet story made up to scare people. This “story” prompted two young girls to stab a friend multiple times and leave her for dead in order to go to Slender Man. He’s a demonic force and has caused many crimes.

Parents must be vigilant in what music their children listen to (so much is about demons), what movies they watch (so many have demonic storylines), what video games they play (yep, more demon infiltration), and what they look at on the internet (much content is demonic and aimed at children).

Demon possession is real. Jesus cast out many demons; but, today, medical “experts” just say it’s a mental disorder and dispense drugs to stop the bad behavior. Drugs open a portal in which demons can enter. Have you allowed your hyperactive child to take drugs to calm him? Ouija Boards are becoming popular, but they’re demonic and can lead to much evil. Christians must stand upon God’s word and eschew all forms of evil.

“Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand” (Ephesians 6:13).

Spiritual weapons from God are required to fight the supernatural enemy.

Christians have protection. We have the Lord. The problem is we deny His power because we believe all that is supernatural is evil. Scripture encourages us to test spirits to see if they are of God.

“Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world” (1 John 4:1).

Someone may claim to be of God but, in reality, is working for Satan. Be cautious and pray. Many false teachings are entering our congregations, and they are being accepted by wishy-washy Christians who deny God’s greater power.

“For such are false apostles, deceitful workers, transforming themselves into the apostles of Christ. And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light” (2 Corinthians 11:13-14).

Demonic evil can look very good if you don’t stay close to God and test the spirits by using prayer and Scripture.

Too often, Christians divide life into categories – one category is what we do on Sunday, and one category is what happens the rest of the week. We live with one foot in the world, and that opens the way to being duped by satanic evil.

How do we avoid supernatural evil? By closely following the Supernatural God of all creation.

“Quench not the Spirit. Despise not prophesyings. Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. Abstain from all appearance of evil” (1 Thessalonians 5:19-22).

God bless you all,

Nathele Graham

twotug@embarqmail.com

www.straitandnarrowministry.com

ron@straitandnarrowministry.com

Ron and Nathele Graham’s previous commentaries archived at https://www.raptureready.com/featured/graham/graham.html

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