A Time to Be Born…A Time to Die :: by Nathele Graham

Solomon came to a point in his life where he had all the wealth he could possibly want and anything he imagined he could have, yet he was empty. As he reflected on life he saw the cycles and the contrasts.

“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven” (Ecclesiastes 3:1).

When we are young we assume we have many years of life ahead of us. Most people work toward goals…a bigger house, fancier cars, more gadgets. We earn money and then spend it foolishly on things of this world. We have hopes and dreams for what we want to accomplish in life and, like Solomon, we learn that all the money in the world cannot satisfy us. Sometimes our dreams change or have to be put on hold, and that can be discouraging.

There are seasons in life and if we don’t change with those seasons we become frustrated and angry. God’s purpose for our life may be different than what we have in mind and if we live opposed to God we will never be satisfied.

“I have seen all the works that are done under the sun; and, behold, all is vanity and vexation of spirit” (Ecclesiastes 1:14).

The Hebrew word hebel is translated “vanity” and means vapor or breath. Our time on earth is short and all of the pursuits of our life will one day be as vapor.

“A time to be born, and a time to die…” (Ecclesiastes 3:2a).

A newborn child is a wonderful and miraculous thing to behold. There is so much hope and joy wrapped up in that little bundle of flesh. Babies are a clean slate with none of the mistakes that plague us as we grow and make choices. They may not have had time to tell lies or blame someone else for their actions, but these precious little humans are born with a sin nature.

Before long they learn the word, “No” and the terrible twos have begun. Rebellion against parents becomes a part of everyday life, but rebellion against God is much more serious. This first birth is natural and the child has no choice. It’s the second birth that happens by choice. More on that subject later. Adam was a direct creation of God. He wasn’t born in the same way his children, and every generation since, have been born.

“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them” (Genesis 1:27).

God created Adam but did not make a robot. Adam had free will and was able to choose to obey God or not. God specifically told Adam not to eat of the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and evil, but because Eve believed Satan’s lies and ate the fruit, Adam chose to also eat it. And so death became a reality. Because of Adam’s sin we all are under the curse of sin and death.

“For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ shall all be made alive” (1 Corinthians 15:22).

God loves His creation and had a plan for redemption. Life has seasons. Just as Spring turns to summer and summer to autumn, we also have seasons in our lives.

“A time to be born, and a time to die…” (Ecclesiastes 3:2a).

Death is a reality and the shadow of death is all around us. One of the hardest things we have to face is the death of someone we love. The longer we live the more loved ones we will lose. I first felt the heartache that comes from the death of a loved one when I was a child. I was 6 years old when my 14 year old brother was killed in an automobile accident.

Since then, many people I love have died, including my parents, grandparents, friends, a miscarried baby, and most recently, my husband. The heartache of the death of a loved one is always a part of us. We make plans for our future but too often we don’t consider that we may not live to see those plans come true.

“Whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away”(James 4:14).

Life is fleeting and our plans are fragile. Death may change all of our plans. Are you ready to face death?

Death isn’t something most people like to think about, but it will come to us all. People plan for retirement, vacations, and many other events in life, but death isn’t something most people plan for. Do you know what will happen to you after you die? Many people think they are good enough to go to heaven, but they haven’t read or believed God’s Word.

Some think if we aren’t “good enough” we will be reincarnated and get another try at being a better person. That’s not going to happen. Others think that there is a temporary holding place where the “not quite good enough” go to work on being able to enter heaven. None of that is true.

“And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment”(Hebrews 9:27).

Death and judgment will come to everyone. You will either be judged and condemned at the White Throne judgment, or if you have accepted Christ as your Savior you will be judged at the Bema Seat. We make our decision while living in this life and there are no second chances.

It all sounds very depressing and sorrowful.

Don’t despair—there is hope. Life on earth holds many joyous occasions for most people, such as weddings, birthdays, and the birth of children. For a Christian, life after death holds even more joy because at last we will see our Lord and worship Him. How do we obtain eternal life? Jesus was very to the point when He spoke of eternal life.

“Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God” (John 3:3).

Jesus wasn’t talking about literally becoming a baby again and starting over, no reincarnation is involved. We are born once when we enter this world, but unless we have a spiritual rebirth we cannot hope for a joyous eternal life.

“Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit” (John 3:5-6).

Jesus contrasted our first birth (water and flesh) to spiritual rebirth. Eternal life only comes through our faith in the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. That is our second birth—born of the Spirit.

Sin is what separates us from God. Big sins and little ones alike make an impassable gulf and keep humanity separated from God. Jesus knew no sin, yet He shed His blood as the once for all sacrifice to take away our sin. This was God’s plan to bridge the gulf Adam’s sin caused.

“For Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God being put to death in the flesh, but quickened by the Spirit” (1 Peter 3:18).

You may be the nicest person around, but unless you have seen the need for the saving grace of Jesus you are as lost as the most hardened criminal on death row. In fact, if that hardened criminal has humbled himself before Jesus Christ and accepted the once for all sacrifice of Christ’s shed blood, he will have eternal life when he dies. No sin is greater than God’s love.

Everyone will one day pass from this life to the next. One day it will be my turn to die. My only hope for eternal life is the fact that I have accepted Christ as my Savior.

“And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die. Believest thou this?” (John 11:26).

I believe. Oh, my Lord Jesus, I believe! My sins have been nailed to the cross and I’m forgiven. I’m not perfect in the eyes of the world, but in the sight of God I’m a new creation in Christ. When sin creeps into my life, I ask Him to forgive me. Salvation is still mine, but I need to say I’m sorry to the One who gave His life that I might live. You will also face death one day.

Why do you think you deserve eternal life? Have you served on many charitable committees? Maybe you take care of someone who is ill or you’re nice to animals. Without faith in Jesus you have no hope of eternal life.

“I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins” (John 8:24).

You may belong to a congregation of believers, but if you haven’t accepted Christ for yourself then you are lost. Your parents may be Christians, but if you haven’t accepted Christ for your own salvation, then you need to do that now. It’s been said that God has no grandchildren. That means that your parents cannot make that decision for you.

“For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that every one may receive the things done in his body, according to that he hath done, whether it be good or bad” (2 Corinthians 5:10).

This is the Bema Seat judgment and it isn’t one of condemnation. Christians will be judged by what we have done for Jesus and those things will be rewarded. The judgment seat of Christ is not to be feared, but the White Throne judgment is a different story. That judgment is for those who have not accepted Christ for salvation and they will be judged by their own works. Your idea of perfection will never be good enough to allow you to stand before God and be judged righteous. Only Christ’s righteousness will allow you salvation.

Solomon had good advice for young people:

“Remember now thy Creator in the days of thy youth, while the evil days come not, nor the years draw nigh, when thou shalt say, I have no pleasure in them” (Ecclesiastes 12:1).

The pleasures in this life are temporary. Don’t put off accepting Christ, because it may be too late. We never know when it will be our turn to die. Only Christ holds hope.

“O death, where is thy sting? O grave where is thy victory?” (1 Corinthians 15:55).

He conquered death and because He lives, so will I. Solomon came to understand that honoring God should be something even young people do.

“A time to be born, and a time to die…” (Ecclesiastes 3:2a).

If you are reading this then you have been born into life in this world. Now it’s time to become born-again—born of the Spirit. There will be a time to die and you don’t want to die without Christ as your Savior.

God bless you all,

Nathele Graham

Seek Ye First the Kingdom of God :: by Nathele Graham

Hopes, dreams, wants and desires are all a part of being human. It’s not wrong to want to better ourselves, but many of those hopes and dreams aren’t in God’s will. Many are ways to glorify us, but have nothing to do with glorifying God.

When wrong desires come along, we usually know who to go to for advice … we know who will tell us what we want to hear.

Do you want a bigger house? Talk to a real estate agent. How about a brand new car with all the bells and whistles? Talk to a car salesman. These things aren’t bad desires, but a Christian needs to look to God for guidance.

If you’re seeking the kingdom of God, then talk to God. When a Christian desires something that’s not within God’s will, unrest and unhappiness will result if you don’t accept God’s direction.

God wants us to talk to Him and tell Him our hopes and dreams, but then we need to humble ourselves and submit to His will. If He says “No” then accept His answer and ask Him to show you a better way.

“Therefore take no thought, saying What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or Wherewithal shall we be clothed? (For after all these things do the Gentiles seek;) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things” (Matthew 6:31-32).

Jesus had just told His listeners about how God cares for the birds of the air and how beautiful the lilies of the field are clothed. He wanted these people to understand that God knows the needs of all of creation and will meet the needs of His people. Why, then, do we worry and fret?

The answer is easy, and the solution depends upon us.

“But seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you” (Matthew 6:33).

Put aside “me, me, me” and seek the kingdom of God. You might be surprised at how many things that you want are not things you need.

What do you want that God hasn’t already provided? Instead of being content with what He provides we think we need any number of worldly things to make us happy. Most of us make our own troubles by not seeking God in everything. Advertisements plants seeds of discontent in our minds that tell us that what we have isn’t sufficient to make us happy. Instead of thanking God for His blessings, we covet worldly possessions.

Instead of seeking God and His righteousness, we go deeper into debt and buy things we want but don’t need. Things can never give us long term happiness or contentment. Dissatisfaction will then lead us to buy more things we don’t need and put us deeper in debt. It all becomes a vicious cycle. The debt and inner turmoil this causes might be what finally prompts us to cry out to God for help.

“Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6-7).

If we truly seek His guidance and follow His lead we will find peace. This applies to every part of our life, such as choosing a career or choosing a spouse. If we seek the kingdom of God we will put Him first and everything will fall into place.

Pray about decisions, then submit to God’s answer. How often are you faced with a decision but instead of going to God and seeking His answer you go to secular friends or nominal Christians who give you worldly advice? This will only add to your turmoil and bury you deeper in anxiety. People who don’t honor God cannot help you to seek God’s answer.

Jesus is our example in all things. We know that He was fully God and also fully human. He entered His creation to give us the only way of salvation. Because He was human there would be overwhelming pain as He was beaten and nailed to the cross.

“For he hath made him to be sin for us who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him” (2 Corinthians 5:21).

He knew that when He became sin in our place that for the first time ever He would be separated from the Father.

“And at the ninth hour Jesus cried with a loud voice, saying, Eloi, Eloi, lama sabachthani? which is being interpreted, My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?” (Mark 15:34).

Did Jesus put a smile on His face and skip happily to the cross? No. He went willingly, but when He knew the time had come and He was about to be arrested He went to God the Father in prayer. He sweat drops of blood as He agonized over what He was about to face. As He waited for Judas to bring the authorities to arrest Him, He prayed. He told God the Father what His desire was, but He submitted to His will.

“Saying, Father, if thou be willing, remove this cup from me: nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done” (Luke 22:42).

If Jesus had allowed His dread of what was to come stop Him from going to the cross, salvation would not be available to us. Had there been any other way, the Father would have provided it. He wouldn’t have required His Son to face the agony of the cross. When you seek the kingdom of God you need to be willing—like Jesus—to submit to His authority.

God will meet our needs, but there are false teachers who try to convince people that all you have to do is visualize what you want and God will give it to you. That attitude is not seeking the kingdom of God, but seeking your own selfishness.

“And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he heareth us: and if we know that he hear us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of him” (1 John 5:14-15).

This verse dispels the “name it and claim it” ideas. These false teachers see the part about “whatsoever we ask” but they miss the part about asking “according to his will.”

If you visualize that want worldly goods and then tell God to give it to you, you are not seeking the kingdom of God. He may allow you to have money, but then comes the responsibility to use His provisions for His glory and not your own.

Pray according to God’s will and He will hear and answer. Jesus gave us the example of prayer when He taught us to pray:

“Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10).

If your prayers don’t seem to be answered, examine your petitions. Are you seeking God and His righteousness, or are you behaving like a spoiled child demanding that you get your own way and pouting if it doesn’t happen? That’s pride.

“Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up” (James 4:10).

He owes you nothing; you owe Him everything. If you seek the kingdom of God you need to have a desire to find it. If someone handed you a treasure map and said to follow the directions and you’ll find all the riches you can imagine, what would you do? First you would study the map and then follow the directions to find the treasure.

“Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto treasure hid in a field; the which when a man hath found, he hideth, and for joy thereof goeth and selleth all that he hath, and buyeth that field” (Matthew 13:44).

The Bible is God’s directions for us to follow as we seek His kingdom and His righteousness. There is no treasure more valuable than eternal life. In seeking the kingdom of God we need to put Him first in all things. Get rid of all those idols you put ahead of God. When we think of idols and false gods we usually think of little statues, but it goes much deeper than that.

A false god is anything you put before God Almighty. Most Christians put everything before Him. Television, hobbies, work, and even friendships that don’t honor God all get in the way of seeking Him. When we put our own desires first we miss out on the treasure that awaits us.

Another thing that gets in the way of seeking the kingdom of God is an attitude that doesn’t agree with God’s ways.

“This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you” (John 15:12).

When you love someone you show God’s love.

The Greek word agapaō is the word translated “love.”

“Christian love has God for its primary object, and expresses itself first of all in implicit obedience to His commandments.” (Vine’s Expository Dictionary of New Testament Words)

It isn’t always easy to show God’s love to others, but if you are seeking His kingdom you need to do this as a habit. Showing God’s love to fellow Christians doesn’t necessarily mean we are “cheerleaders.”

If we see a fellow Christian openly participating in sin or turning away from Jesus, it doesn’t show God’s love to encourage them in sin. Condemning a person isn’t our place, but approving of their sin is not showing love. If you love someone as God loves, you will help them to turn away from sin and seek God’s righteousness.

When God is first in your life everything else falls into place. When you’re faced with decisions you will seek God’s guidance by studying your Bible, praying, and talking with people who also have God first in their life. Then, conform yourself to God. Change any attitude that doesn’t line up with God’s word. Remember:

“But seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you” (Matthew 6:33).

He will provide for your needs.

 

God bless you all,

Nathele Graham

All original Scripture is ‘theopneustos” (God breathed).

 

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