Be Careful Where You Seek Advice :: By Nathele Graham

Most Christians have at least one favorite Psalm. When we face hardships or challenges, it’s usually Psalm 23 which we turn to. Psalm 42 speaks to our desire and longing for God, and Psalm 51 is a cry out to God for His forgiveness. It’s easy to skip around through the Psalms, but they will all strengthen us. Let’s take a look at Psalm 1 and see if we can find some wisdom there.

“Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful” (Psalm 1:1).

Instead of listing things a man (or woman) can do to be happy, the psalmist tells us what not to do. We all need to walk in the ways of the Lord, and secular people can’t help us to walk according to Scripture. I learned at a young age who to go to in order to get the advice I wanted. If I didn’t want to walk the straight and narrow path, I would go to secular friends. On the other hand, I also knew who would give me advice that was based on Scripture. I’m sure you’re much the same. As I’ve aged and have drawn closer to my Lord, Scripture is my guide. I do have a dear friend I turn to if I need advice, and I’m confident she will give me honest help based on Scripture. It’s important to choose friends, spouses, and partnerships wisely. We will be much happier if we don’t follow in the footsteps of nonbelievers.

“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion hath light with darkness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14).

If your friends don’t know Jesus, there’s a good chance they will mock Him and make you embarrassed to follow Him. Does that make you happy? It shouldn’t. You’ll be much happier fellowshipping with Christians. We all need advice once in a while, but if we go to someone who doesn’t base decisions upon God’s ways, we’ll get ungodly answers.

The Apostle Paul wrote many letters, including one to a pastor in Crete named Titus. Crete was a rather wild place, and the letter advised Titus on how to be a better pastor. Paul advises Titus to encourage the congregation to walk closer to the Lord.

“But speak thou the things which become sound doctrine: that the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience” (Titus 2:1-2).

This is the kind of advice Christian men need to take to heart. What about Christian women?

“The aged women likewise, that they be in behavior as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; that they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed” (Titus 2:3-5).

This isn’t advice you’ll get from secular friends, but this is solid Christian teaching. Next, Paul tells how to advise the young men. Should they sow their wild oats, or honor God?

“Young men, likewise exhort to be sober minded. In all things shewing thyself a pattern of good works: in doctrine shewing uncorruptness, gravity, sincerity, sound speech, that cannot be condemned; that he that is of the contrary part may be ashamed, having no evil thing to say of you” (Titus 2:6-8).

People who don’t know God cannot give Godly advice, so to be happy one must “…walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly.” How many of you gather around the water cooler at work and grumble about your boss? Is that where you’ll find godly advice?

“Exhort servants to be obedient unto their own masters, and to please them well in all things: not answering again; not purloining, but shewing all good fidelity; that they may adorn the doctrine of God our Saviour in all things” (Titus 2:9-10).

If you need advice, you’ll be much happier if you talk with a friend who follows Jesus rather than the world. A person who fears and honors God isn’t happy if he, or she, makes choices that aren’t Scriptural.

“But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night” (Psalm 1:2). 

Although the word “meditate” is used, this isn’t talking about eastern religions that encourage you to empty your mind and allow whatever demon happens to be passing to fill the void. This means to study God’s word and think about it day and night in order to understand it, apply it, and take delight in it. If you’re following worldly ways, you’ll never be truly happy. When you please God you find His peace.

Jesus said, “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid” (John 14:27).

It may look as if worldly people are happy and think they have things pretty well figured out, but do they have God’s peace? Many celebrities have fame and fortune, but the reality is they’re not happy. Most take many drugs or drink to excess, always searching but never finding the happiness they think money can buy. They are walking in the counsel of the ungodly. It would be so much better to “delight in the law of the LORD.”

“And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper” (Psalm 1:3).

Trees grow strong and tall and need water to thrive. A tree that’s near a river has an abundant supply of water and nutrients and will thrive. People can take shelter under its limbs and be cooled by the shade of its leaves. Christians have a source of Living Water that will never fail.

“Jesus answered and said unto her, If thou knewest the gift of God and who it is that saith to thee, Give me to drink; thou wouldest have asked of him, and he would have given thee living water” (John 4:10). 

The more we drink from the Living Water, the more fruit we will bear for Him.

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law” (Galatians 5:22-23).

If we stand in the way of sinners or sit on the seat of the scornful, we’ll never be like the tree planted by the rivers of water. We won’t bear the fruit of the Spirit.

“The ungodly are not so: but are like the chaff which the wind driveth away” (Psalm 1:4).

Chaff is the part of the wheat that’s useless. Before wheat is able to be used for flour, the chaff has to be removed. John the Baptist used chaff as an example when he was asked if he was the Christ.

“John answered, saying unto them all, I indeed baptize you with water; but one mightier than I cometh, the latchet of whose shoes I am not worthy to unloose: he shall baptize you with the Holy Ghost and with fire: Whose fan is in his hand, and he will thoroughly purge his floor, and will gather the wheat into his garner; but the chaff he will burn with fire unquenchable” (Luke 3:16-17).

The day is fast approaching when Jesus will call His followers Home. Those who do not know Him as Lord and Saviour will be left behind and eternally burned in the fires of damnation. It will be their own choice. Jesus doesn’t force anyone to choose to follow Him, but the consequences of rejecting His free gift of salvation is eternal damnation. Today is the day to make a decision to accept Christ’s gift. The offer is there for everyone, but each individual has to make his or her own choice. If you were baptized as a baby, that only shows your parents had good intentions to raise you in the admonition of the Lord. Baptism doesn’t impart salvation, so you must make your own confession of faith.

“That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved” (Romans 10:9).

If you have made the confession of faith and believe in the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ, follow Him. Don’t follow ungodly people down the path that leads to destruction.

“Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous” (Psalm 1:5). 

Sinners cannot stand before God Almighty and enter Heaven based upon their own good works. We are all sinners. Judgment will come all too soon, and saint and sinner alike will bow before Jesus Christ.

“For it is written, As I live, saith the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God” (Romans 14:11).

As Christians we know that our righteousness is only through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Saviour. Everyone has a choice whether to accept Him or reject Him. The sad truth is that many will choose to reject Christ’s death, burial, and resurrection and will be as the chaff thrown into the unquenchable fire. Christians must stand strong in our faith and allow our example to influence those who haven’t found salvation. The lost people of this world need to come to us for answers rather than us going to them. We need to take our advice and guidance from God’s word.

“For the LORD knoweth the way of the righteous: but the way of the ungodly shall perish” (Psalm 1:6).

Jesus Christ is our example. He made it very clear that He is the only Way.

“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me” (John 14:6).

That means that a guru cannot lead you to Heaven, nor Mohammed, Joseph Smith, or any New-Age lie. There is only one Way. Jesus is the Way. Do you know Him? If you’re concerned about where you’ll spend eternity, don’t walk in the counsel of the ungodly. Their counsel will only lead you to choose to spend eternity in the Lake of Fire. Turn to God for guidance; seek the counsel of a Christ-centered Christian. Our righteousness only comes from Jesus, and our joy is sharing the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

Be careful where you seek advice. If it’s not godly advice, then it’s useless.

God bless you all,

Nathele Graham

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www.straitandnarrowministry.com

ron@straitandnarrowministry.com

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Christian Unity or Ecumenical Babel? :: By Howard Green

The past four months have ushered in a crisis like nothing else we’ve seen in recent history. To be certain, September 11, 2001, was a day that will continue to influence our way of life for the foreseeable future. As horrific as that event was, the coronavirus (Covid-19) and the current social unrest is equally consequential in scope and may prove to be even more momentous, because it has literally altered every aspect of society and daily life. As believers and ministers of the gospel, we need to understand what the Bible says regarding events that Jesus warned about, and we need to consider how to prepare Christians to walk circumspectly in a time when fellowship and faith are being compromised (Hebrews 10:23-25).

Compromise is a word I don’t use lightly, but it is exactly what a growing number of believers and even leaders are doing regarding fellowship and the gospel. This is nothing new, and many of us have noted these conditions as we write and preach about the growing defection from the faith that will ultimately lead to widespread global apostasy (1 Timothy 4:1-4).

While compromise isn’t new, it can become increasingly hard to recognize by those who place little emphasis on meeting together and the study of God’s word. In fact, compromised faith can be mistaken for the real thing, because it has just enough spiritual authenticity to deceive many people into believing a lie (2 Corinthians 11:3).

Our enemy is crafty, and the word of God reminds us as we approach the second coming of Jesus, great signs and wonders will occur through false prophets; and if it were possible, even the elect would be deceived. I’m so thankful for the grace of God (Matthew 24:24). So, how do we protect ourselves from the widespread deception Jesus said was coming and is increasing daily? We immerse ourselves into like-minded, Christ-honoring fellowship with other believers and remain grounded in the eternal truths of the Bible. Hebrews 10:25, “not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.”

The writer of Hebrews makes it clear that if you are a discerning Christian, you will prioritize meeting together for encouragement and exhortation toward love and good works. Where does discernment come in? We are told to meet together and stir up one another all the more, as we see the Day approaching. This exhortation in light of the nearness of our Lord’s return can’t be understated, because a discerning believer will recognize the very same conditions Jesus warned about and know that time is short. This is no time for apathy or compromise. Our lamps should always remain full (Matthew 25:3-4).

Obviously, we have a biblical mandate to meet together for fellowship; and please let me encourage you to make it a point to reach out to other Christians for fellowship, discipleship, and encouragement. Even if it is just a quick email, letter, phone call, Zoom meeting, or FaceTime, it will be such a blessing to others and will go a long way toward stirring up one another to love and good works.

There is another side to fellowship and meeting together, and it is what I want to focus on in light of the recent events surrounding coronavirus and the recent social upheaval. I’ve listened very carefully to solid biblical teaching from fellow preachers in the past few weeks, and there is a consensus regarding the spiritual condition of our world in light of Bible prophecy. The current events surrounding coronavirus, social unrest, and its global impact are also serving as a reminder that, just as God has a faithful remnant church, there is an increasing number of people who name the name of Jesus but are being led astray into compromise and apostasy (Acts 20:28-30).

Just as there is authentic biblical unity among the true church rooted in the centrality of Christ and sound doctrine, there is also a convergence among those who are deceiving and being deceived based on unity at all costs and false doctrine. Looking at so-called Christian movements, celebrity pastors, and popular ministries that mimic the world’s methods, you will observe a consensus among them as well. The commonality is that they are focused on their kingdom, not God’s. It’s quite a racket because, on the surface, they are involved in ministry activities that masquerade as Christianity. In reality, they build their programs that lead many people away from the faith that was once for all delivered to the saints.

This false unity is increasingly, obvious during the current pandemic and social unrest because of the overtly ecumenical move toward putting our doctrinal differences aside and coming together for the common good. They will use religious words like church, gospel, and love to authenticate their spiritual deception. Often, this unity pays in dividends in increased numbers, worldly acceptance, and prominence in groups who laud one another instead of Christ.

Here is what one preacher said regarding fellowship in Christ vs. unity: “One hundred worshippers looking to Christ are nearer in heart than they could possibly be, were they to become ‘unity’ conscious and turn their eyes away from God to strive for closer fellowship.” – A.W. Tozer

Friends, anytime there is unity for the sake of the greater good and togetherness at all costs, instead of God’s glory, we are at Babel (Genesis 11:4). Please understand, I’m glad that people are being fed, churches are distributing protective masks, and tangible acts of human kindness are happening because true Christians should care for the least of these. But the unity that’s becoming prevalent in the evangelical world, especially here in America and the West, is based on a different gospel, albeit cloaked in religious programs, platitudes, and pandering.

True Christians are diametrically opposed to racism, but understand that manmade attempts to stop social unrest and the evil of racism through any other means outside of Jesus won’t work. No amount of ascribed guilt, unity based on a movement, or solidarity based on color instead of Christ will end hate. We can mourn and lament the brokenness of humanity and evils of racism with others, but attempts by Christians to engage hearts based on anything else but the gospel is nonsense. The wretched human heart must repent and be cleansed by the blood of Jesus for authentic love for others to flow ( 1 John 4:20).

False unity is exemplified by leaders in the largest denominations and supposedly gospel-based movements in the US and the West compromising biblical standards regarding sound doctrine to satisfy itching ears. False unity is many churches being preoccupied with social justice, instead of pointing people to the Prince of Peace who will bring true lasting justice. It is pop-star evangelical preachers promoting unity based on worldly movements instead of warning people about them. This isn’t the kind of fellowship and unity the Bible commands; rather, it’s an ecumenical movement leading toward apostasy (2 Timothy 4:3).

The imperative to not neglect meeting together as believers in Hebrews 10:25 should give believers a sense of biblical urgency, because it’s bolstered by discerning the nearness of Jesus’ return. The phrase “As you see the Day approaching” is meant to remind believers that we must make gathering together a priority as we discern the times we live in. Fellowship among the Saints is of utmost importance as discipleship, accountability, and encouragement stir up one another to love and good works in light of the Lord’s return. This is exactly where a mass divergence is taking place in the church. It’s no coincidence that those who teach and preach sound end-time Bible prophecy with regularity place an emphasis on evangelism, discipleship, and holy living (2 Peter 3:11-12).

Conversely, when Bible prophecy is ignored, or worse, maligned by Christian leaders, what follows is fellowship and unity based on a different gospel. 2 Peter 2:1-3, “But false prophets also arose among the people, just as there will be false teachers among you, who will secretly bring in destructive heresies, even denying the Master who bought them, bringing upon themselves swift destruction.”

I wrote an article a few weeks ago and explained that: Coronavirus may come and go. I don’t know if it is one of the end-time pestilences Jesus warned would come, but I have no reason to believe it isn’t one. Although we certainly aren’t in the Tribulation as some conjecture, we may very well be approaching the birth pains and beginning of sorrows Jesus warned about as these events are increasing in frequency and severity like never before. I just can’t imagine fellowship that’s based upon mega-church programs and head-in-the-sand type of worldly optimism, all the while failing to warn people about the wrath to come, especially in light of recent events. I was hoping that we would see the emphasis taken off of men and methods and placed on proclaiming the gospel with a renewed sense of urgency.

I believe as spiritual deception increases, so will the divide between those who fellowship based on the gospel and others who base fellowship on an ecumenical purpose-driven type of false gospel (Jeremiah 23:16-17).

I expect that as we contend for the faith and base our fellowship in the centrality of Jesus, we will see growing disdain for the truth, even among those who profess to teach it. Those of us who lovingly teach that God’s righteous judgment is coming and warn people to repent will be ridiculed and maligned. The temptation to compromise our message is always at the door, because it comes via the preachers and prophets that Nehemiah warned about, albeit in our time. If you preach repentance, you are labeled out of touch. If you warn about the wrath to come, you are fearmongering. If you confront false doctrine, you are called divisive. If you teach end-time Bible prophecy, you are distracting people and irrelevant.

This divergence among professing Christians, and especially preachers and teachers, is growing more pronounced by the day. I was reading an old favorite book written in 1976 by David Wilkerson called Racing Toward Judgment. In it, he refers to slumbering shepherds as “Prophets of the positive.” Not much has changed in forty years. In fact, this type of unbiblical optimism has only increased exponentially, and we are that much closer to the wrath of God falling on an unrepentant world.

Dear friends, it is the Holy Spirit who gives the discernment to understand the times we live in and gives us the will to fellowship together, especially as we see the Day approaching. Let’s stand firm in our proclamation of the gospel and in true biblical unity based on the gospel of Christ alone. Even in these days of social distancing, we must be deliberate about fellowship, because none of us can stand alone.  We need like-minded, Spirit-led brethren to stir one another up in the love of Jesus and Spirit-led discernment.

Philippians 1:9-11, “And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.”

Please reach out to other Christ-followers using whatever methods you can, because we can certainly see the Day approaching. Maranatha!

Every blessing in our Lord Jesus,

Howard

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